How LGBTQ+ Representation Shapes Identity and Social Work Practice

As I watch media depicting LGBTQ+ lives, through shows like “The Fosters” and “Pretty Little Liars,” I am getting a glimpse at just how valuable representation in media is going to be as I pursue a career in social work. Each of these shows highlight the love stories of female couples, including Stef and Lena (“The Fosters”) and Emily and Alison (“Pretty Little Liars”), in ways that look like real relationships instead of simply being added to check a box or for the sake of diversity. They depict relationships and dynamics between family members as they grapple with what it means to love freely and be free to be oneself. This is a type of storyline that we do not always see in the media.

From a practice standpoint in social work, representation can go beyond simply being seen by others; it can create a sense of validation. When LGBTQ youth are able to view characters who are affirmatively portrayed and relatable, it has been shown to enhance identity development, self-esteem (Gomillion & Giuliano, 2011), and can also serve as an indirect method of emotional support when LGBTQ youth are unable to receive this same level of support in the physical world (Craig et al., 2015). This information resonated with me, as it mirrors our work in social work where we are taught to meet the client where they are at (physically, mentally, and emotionally), and have an understanding of the systems that have contributed to where they are today.

The media has an impact not only on individuals, but also on society at large. The Pew Research Center reports that more LGBTQ+ visibility in the media has been associated with an increase in social acceptance over time (2020). Shows like The Fosters help push that agenda forward by normalizing the idea of raising a family by same-sex couples and challenging traditional expectations of how families "should" look.

While it's true that representation is not complete – Emily in Pretty Little Liars is depicted through a strictly heteronormative perspective and some identities remain under-represented – these shows still help create a space for more inclusive narratives and support the shift of the conversation.

In my mind, such representation is a necessity and not a luxury. Prompting self-identity development and decreasing stigma assist both individuals as well as society, which ultimately moves toward greater acceptance. As future social workers, being aware of how media can influence identity and perception is important because it enhances our understanding of a client, especially those clients struggling with their identity in environments that may not be very accepting or encouraging.

At Carve Your Own Path, we recognize that your identity is shaped by the world around you, including the stories you see on screen. Our human centered and trauma informed approach means we understand the systemic challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community and prioritize creating a space where everyone feels seen, validated, and respected. If you are navigating your own identity journey or seeking a supportive environment to be your authentic self, we are here to walk alongside you. Explore our inclusive counseling services and meet our team on our website.

References

Craig, S. L., McInroy, L. B., McCready, L. T., & Alaggia, R. (2015). Media: A catalyst for resilience in LGBTQ youth. Journal of LGBT Youth, 12(3), 254–275.

Gomillion, S. C., & Giuliano, T. A. (2011). The influence of media role models on LGBTQ identity development. Journal of Homosexuality, 58(3), 330–354.

Pew Research Center. (2020). Attitudes on same-sex marriage and LGBTQ visibility.

GLAAD. (2023). Where We Are on TV Report.

Written by: Tioluwalse Agbebi, MSW Student Intern – Carve Your Own Path

Disclaimer: This post discusses various television shows for educational and commentary purposes only. Carve Your Own Path, Inc. is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or sponsored by the creators, producers, or distributors of "The Fosters," "Pretty Little Liars," or any other media mentioned. All trademarks and copyrights belong to their respective owners.